No one is ready when they hear those dreaded words "we need to talk." Soon after, a break up usually follows. Men typically handle break ups in a variety of ways. Some guys go way above and beyond, they beg, make promises, and sometimes even go as far as to stalk in an effort to get their ex back. Others accept the breakup as their fate and hope the grass is greener on the other side of the road.
Lastly, there are the guys that are determined to get their ex girlfriend back and they become extremely frustrated because they just do not know what to do.
More importantly they want their ex girlfriend back and they really do not feel like they should have to jump through hoops to make it happen.
Fortunately, jumping through a hoop and losing every single ounce of pride you have to get her back is not necessary. In fact, you do not even have to chase her.
You will actually probably be surprised to find out just how easy it is to get her back.
Follow these steps.
Do NOT Call Her Anymore
Trust me, I know everything in your gut is telling you to reach out to her, but do not do it. Not calling your ex girlfriend is simple because it requires no effort on your part except actually not calling her.
Now, it is going to feel awkward at first, but this step is necessary if you ever want things to get back to how they use to be. She needs to be able to see the light and realize how life is without you.
Showing up at her window in the middle of the night begging her not to leave may work in the movies, but it will surely get you a restraining order in real life. Give her some time to get through her emotions and some time to consider if she is really better off with someone else.
Do not worry, I am not saying never call her again, this step is just temporary.
Make A Few Minor Changes
This step is just as easy as the first one but does require you to make a few small appearance changes. I am not telling you to go and become a new person, that is way too much work. Women have a great ability to notice changes in appearance.
Think about getting your teeth whitened or getting into a regular workout routine. Buy some new clothes or considering cutting back on the beer and pizza for a few days. Minor changes do not require you to do a lot, just enough for her to notice something has changed.
Wait For Her To Get the Word
It will not take very long before the word spreads back to her how good you look in your new clothes or how nice that new haircut looks on you. She will soon become curious and find a way to bump into you or want to meet up. Women have a need to know what is going on.
It will drive her crazy with curiosity that you seem to be looking and doing better without her. She will want to know where the changes are coming from and wonder if it is because you are with someone else.
As I said before she will find a way to run into you in public or call you wanting to have lunch or catch up. She will be dying to know what is going on with you. This is the time that you need to be ready and know exactly what to say to convince her she made a mistake by walking away from you.
Knowing exactly what to say is critical because you only get a small window of opportunity to convince her she made a mistake by leaving you.
That is where I would advise you to check out my review of two "Get Your Ex Back" Programs (The Magic of Making Up and Text Your Ex Back) Online. You can find them on my Marriage, Relationship and Dating Advice Blog called Couples Skills . Feel free to contact me with any questions.